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Abigail Adams to Thomas Jefferson, 20 May 1804

Abigail Adams to Thomas Jefferson

Quincy May 20th 1804

Sir

Had You been no other than the private inhabitant of Montecello, I should e’er this time have addrest you, with that Sympathy, which a recent event has awakend in my Bosom. but reasons of various kinds withheld my pen, untill the powerfull feelings of my heart, have burst through the restraint, and called upon me to shed the tear of sorrow over the departed remains, of Your beloved and deserving Daughter, an event Which I most Sincerely mourn.1

The attachment which I formed for her, when you committed her to my care; upon her arrival in a foreign Land:2 has remained with me to this hour, and the recent account of her death, which I read in a late paper, brought fresh to my remembrance the Strong Sensibility She discoverd, tho but a child of nine years of age at having been seperated from her Friends, and country, and brought, as she expressed it, “to a strange land amongst Strangers.” the tender Scene of her Seperation from me, rose to my recollection, when She clung around my neck and wet my Bosom with her tears, Saying, “o! now I have learnt to Love You. why will they tear me from You”3

It has been some time Since that I conceived of any event in this Life, which could call forth, feelings of Mutual Sympathy. but I know how closely entwined arround a Parents heart, are those Chords which bind the filial to the parental Bosom, and when snaped assunder, how agonizing the pangs of Seperation

I have tasted the bitter cup, and bow with reverence, and humility before the great Dispenser of it, without whose permission, and over ruling Providence; not a sparrow falls to the Ground.4 that You may derive comfort and consolation in this Day of your sorrow and affliction, from that only Source calculated to heal the wounded heart—a firm belief in the Being perfections and attributes of God, is the Sincere and ardent wish of her, Who once took pleasure in / Subscribing / Herself Your Friend

Abigail Adams

RC (NNPM:Misc. American Presidents); endorsed: “Adams Abigail. Quincy May 20. 04. recd. June 2.” Dft (Adams Papers). Tr (Adams Papers); APM Reel 327.

1Mary Jefferson Eppes, Thomas Jefferson’s second daughter, died on 17 April at the age of 25. On 15 Feb. Eppes gave birth to a daughter, Maria Jefferson Eppes (d. 1806), and subsequently developed an abscessed breast. Mary’s condition deteriorated to such a degree that she was taken to Monticello, where her father arrived on 4 April. Reports of Mary’s death appeared in the Washington, D.C., National Intelligencer, 30 April, and the Boston Commercial Gazette, 3 May (Jefferson, Papers description begins The Papers of Thomas Jefferson, ed. Julian P. Boyd, Charles T. Cullen, John Catanzariti, Barbara B. Oberg, James P. McClure, and others, Princeton, N.J., 1950– . description ends , 43:vii, 5, 51; Thomas Mann Randolph to Peachy R. Gilmer, 17 Feb. 1806, ViU:Thomas Mann Randolph Letters).

2In the Dft, AA added, “under circumstances peculiarly interesting.”

3For AA’s care of and affection for the young Mary Jefferson on her arrival in London in 1787, see vol. 8:92–94, 223.

4Matthew, 10:29.

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