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From John Jay to Samuel Kissam, 1 March 1770

To Samuel Kissam1

[New York, 1st March, 1770]

Dear Kissam:

The manner in which you tell your brother2 that you expected a letter from me contains a reproof which gives me pain. I confess appearances have been against me, and my conduct even to you, my friend, must have appeared exceptionable. My last letter I hope will apologize for seeming omissions; you have doubtless received it before this. Neglect of friends is a species of littleness to which I think I am a stranger.—No, my dear Sam, your former attachment to my happiness has made too deep an impression ever to be erased by absence3—an absence which when I suffer my feelings to be influenced by regard to my own pleasure I most sincerely regret. I assure you few incidents can happen so conducive to my satisfaction as the return of those happy days when our mutual confidence created mutual happiness and reciprocal good offices promised permanence to friendship. The duplicity and disengenuousness which shades the characters of many about me daily remind me of the openness and sincerity of my absent friend, and I think I know the value of these amiable qualifications too well to be remiss in cultivating his esteem. These are the genuine effusions of my heart; rest satisfied of their reality and remember that the confidence characteristic of friendship disdains the fetters of distrust and suspicion. Be not surprised at this remark. I do not mention it because I think your behaviour would otherwise be uninfluenced by it. No! my dear Sam, the generosity of your temper excludes such a thought. I mention it with no other view than that you may the more readily mark the consistency of this sentiment with the general tenor of my conduct.

You may remember that my last was interrupted by a call to Rye. I found my mother extremely [ill], but she is now better. From thence I went to Fairfield to try two causes, and returned to New York the day before yesterday. I have much news, but as your brother sends you the papers I shall not trouble you with repeating it. I suppose he has informed you of Miss Scots having gone off with and married to Litchfield.4 I am glad you correspond with Fady. I am sure it will afford him no less improvement than pleasure. Our old friends are well. Let me hear from you by every opportunity and believe me to be Your friend

John Jay

Printed, HPJ description begins Henry P. Johnston, ed., The Correspondence and Public Papers of John Jay (4 vols.; New York, 1893) description ends , 1: 10–12.

1Samuel Kissam (b. 1745), physician, younger brother of Benjamin Kissam. Samuel Kissam received the first Bachelor of Medicine from King’s College in 1769 and his M.D. in 1771. His dissertation was entitled, “An inaugural essay on the anthelmintic quality of the Phaseolus zuratensis siliqua hirsuta, or cow-itch.” The medical school of King’s College was opened in 1767, the second in the colonies after Philadelphia. Thomas, Columbia U. Officers and Alumni, 106. Humphrey, From King’s College to Columbia description begins David C. Humphrey, From King’s College to Columbia, 1746–1800 (New York, 1976) description ends , 231–63. JJ reported receiving news of Kissam’s death in his letter to Robert R. Livingston of 19 July 1783, ALS, NHi (EJ: 844).

2Benjamin Kissam.

3Kissam was in Paramaribo, Surinam.

4Mary Scott (1753–96), daughter of John Morin Scott, married Lt. John Litchfield of the 16th Regiment of Foot in 1770. Litchfield died in 1775. During the Revolution, Mary Scott Litchfield reportedly used her position as the widow of a British officer to obtain information from Loyalist acquaintances, which she passed on to her father and to William Livingston. “Historic Characters: Souvenirs of the Revolution,” Potter’s American Monthly 8–9 (1877): 34–38.

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